Why do we get cled as "Different"?

I live in a small town in Scotland where we have a culture on if you don't drink, drugs, rave, and have with every girl/boy you can get your pervy little hands on then you're cled as different. In brief - Not neds/chavs. Freaks because we wear full black and like the sound of the continuous banging on a guitar. (Some of us) like gory stuff and underworld monsters ie, vampires and warewolfs. But they think they're normal having probably more cocaine in the body than actual blood. Having pores all over the arms, legs and body. Having to waste money on drink,, drugs and cigarettes. It just makes you think, why are people like that? Probably about 55% of Scotland are Neds and the rest are people who contribute to society no matter who they are. It's so stupid. Why does the majority of society cl us as "different"?